I was sitting on the hotel veranda having some lunch when I overheard a conversation between a couple and their waiter. The Zimbabweans are very inquisitive, or at least to tourists. Everyone asked where you were from. Even people out on the street who were not being paid to be polite would ask where I was from and how long I was staying. Anyway, I overheard the answer, clear as a bell – “the Midwest”.
The Midwest. Music to my ears. But then, I thought, “no, wait. It could be the Midwest of anywhere. I didn’t actually hear them say they were from America.” So, I decided to sit and watch and put my feelers in a new direction, that of the nuances of culture.
I watched them for a while, their mannerisms, their way of interacting, even bits and pieces of their conversation (though still nothing that gave away their absolute location) and by the end of 10 minutes I was convinced that they were indeed from the Midwest of America.
Admittedly, some of what I noticed I rather liked, which reminds me of a story I once heard about a man who was truly cosmopolitan, UNTIL someone started talking about his little hometown …
Against the backdrop of everyone else around them – a wide diversity of cultures, including the stuffy Mr. and Mrs. Campbell-Jones – there was a definite difference in my Midwestern friends. It was really fascinating to see myself in them and to feel the similarities, almost as if I was outside looking at myself through a window. Gave me an interesting perspective on my own life!
Earlier in the week I had observed an interesting phenomenon as I was interacting with friends here in South Africa. I have a dear South African friend who has been living in Canada for the last 13 years. As our friendship developed I have considered her mannerisms to be purely individual (although there were definitely some Mercy imprints of the nation on her Prophet character). Since I have been here, I have found that some of those mannerisms are not just hers! I have been quite amused to find a few of them are decidedly South African.
So, one of the things I am enjoying, but didn’t expect, is a sharpening of my skills to differentiate some of the nuances of the world’s cultures. Even more so, to use my Mercy gift of intuition to feel it. It’s great fun! I like looking for God’s fingerprints. Even if I see an extreme in the people – you know, stereotypes often have roots in reality – it is fun to wonder if there is a fingerprint hiding under there somewhere.
Meanwhile, speaking of stereotypes, I was trying very hard not to be another loud, pushy American, though my national roots stood me in better stead than my individual design when it came to saying “no” to the street vendors!